Again, make it short and sensitive, then turn it back to how she feels. But I have to wonder what other women might be thinking. I feel ridiculously stupid because he never admitted it or came out to me, I found out by going thru his emails one day and the hurt and grief of not knowing and feeling so stupid for believing his every word for five years hurt like a knife. Two more points Submitted by dave on March 15, - 4: Hey Happy Man; great to see you back. Are you male or female? The big question is:
Harm to minors, violence or threats, harassment or privacy invasion, impersonation or misrepresentation, fraud or phishing, show more. I feel SO sorry for her, because she will be devastated! Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email. She will most likely feel a range of emotions and may question whether your entire marriage has been a lie, so it's important that you explain that you had some feelings when you were younger, but fell in love with her etc, and have loved the life you've made.
Support her if she cries and listen with your tongue between your teeth if you have to. He is a wonderful man and if I weren't gay, I would have been lucky to be married to such a great guy. You can talk about another friend that is gay or even just about someone hypothetically coming out if you don't know someone who's gay. Hi HM; I'm sorry it's taken me so long to get back to you; been in a bit of a slump. Answer Questions If I suck a guys dick and say no homo, does it still make me gay??!!?
We have walked through a lot of places hand-in-hand and happily. I think deep down I realised I was gay when I was about six. I'm really thinking I just misunderstood Those women suffer horribly trying to retroactively piece together what their relationship meant and what their futures hold. But to say that she was brave was like a slap to my face every time someone said it to me which was a lot. In some relationships this works, in others it won't.